Tim Høiland
10Feb/12Off

Repaso: Poverty defined; photography saving cultures; visions of Quito; redemption for Fidel; NYC church ban

1. How do you define poverty?
This one was posted last October but I stumbled upon it again this week and thought it would be worth sharing here. Chances are good that if you’re asked to define poverty you’d speak almost entirely in economic and material terms. That’s certainly part of any full definition, but when HOPE International’s Chris Ordway surveyed a “saving circle” of 20 men and women in Rwanda who are classified by standard definitions as being poor or very poor, their answers were very different from what you might expect. It’s interesting food for thought in considering what poverty truly is, and by extension, what possible remedies might look like.

2. Can photography save indigenous cultures?
Jacob Maentz, a photographer based in the Philippines, has a post at the Visual Peacemakers blog about the Katutubong Filipino Project, which he started. It seems like a very worthwhile project. Here’s a blurb:

For indigenous peoples who depend on the forest for their food, pharmaceuticals and peace of mind, taking away their land, as history shows, will diminish their way of life... The Katutubong Filipino Project aims to bring about awareness of the Philippine archipelago’s indigenous peoples’ by visually documenting their slowly disappearing cultural heritages... Strong photographs can cause people to stop and think for a moment letting them generate emotions about a subject while getting a glimpse into a different world. Likewise, photographs have a way of showing our common humanity, despite our many differences, and can help people unite and generate respect toward each other.

3. Visions of Quito from Ecuador's most iconic artist
Jordi Sanchez-Cuenca has a post at polis (“a collaborative blog about cities across the globe”) introducing us to the work of Oswaldo Guayasamín (1919-99), an Ecuadorian painter of Quechua descent who wove his politics into his art, and now makes me really want to visit Quito:

Besides being Ecuador's most famous artist, he was also a politically active intellectual who supported the causes of the poor and victims of slavery, exploitation, wars, famine and other tragedies on the continent... Most of his pieces express a profound sense of sorrow, which can be interpreted as a condemnation of the suffering that millions bore because of social injustices and wars. Despite this, his art is strikingly beautiful.

4. Redemption for Fidel Castro?
Brian Dijkema writes at the Cardus blog about something that, if true, would be extraordinary for Cuba:

Fidel Castro is a thief and a murderer... But rumour has it that Fidel is contemplating a return to his old faith. As with most news from Cuba, it’s difficult to determine the veracity of these claims, but an Italian newspaper quotes his daughter Alina as saying, “Today he is more interested in the fate of his soul than the future of Cuba.” Let us hope and pray that this is true. Let’s hope that he embraces the true fidel.

5. Tim Keller on NYC schools' church ban
I was curious whether Tim Keller, pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church, would weigh in on the controversial decision  in New York City last December banning churches from renting space in the city’s public schools for use on Sundays, when the buildings otherwise stand empty. He spoke out this week about the churches affected:

Redeemer has many ties with those churches and their pastors, and our church community invests time and resources to assist them to be good neighbors in their communities. Let them be those good neighbors. I am hopeful that the leaders of New York City and the legislators of New York State will see the value of a society that encourages all spheres of culture—the church, government, education, business, etc—to work together for human flourishing.

Repaso is intended as a thought-provoking compilation of news and commentary from the past week related to the intersections of faith, development, justice and peace. As always, I welcome your thoughts on any of the links and ideas in this roundup!

[Photo credit: Chris Noble via BarefootArtists.org]

18Jan/12Off

The Meaning of Marriage

On October 31, marriage was in the news: Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphreys were getting divorced. It was a sad spectacle, and though celebrity marriages aren’t exactly known for their longevity, at 72 days this one’s brevity got people talking. "I hope everyone understands this was not an easy decision,” Kardashian said in a statement. “I had hoped this marriage was forever, but sometimes things don't work out as planned. We remain friends and wish each other the best."

Less than a week later, surrounded by our families and many of our closest friends at a little garden oasis in North Phoenix, Katie and I made audacious promises to each other: “to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.”

Today is day 73, and by God’s grace, we’re just getting started.

In that week between October 31 and November 6, as it happens, Timothy and Kathy Keller published their book The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God (Dutton). My good friend and groomsman Barnabas gave us the book as a gift.

The book is remarkable in all the ways that books on relationships and marriage so often fall flat. Tim and Kathy have no patience for clichés, but instead share their wisdom rooted in three significant things: 37 years of marriage; more than 20 years of ministry in a city (NYC) and a church (Redeemer) largely made up of single people; and last but not least, the Bible’s teachings on the meaning of marriage, and what it has to do with all of us. In the introduction, they write:

It is hard to get a good perspective on marriage. We all see it through the inevitably distorted lenses of our own experience. If you came from an unusually stable home, where your parents had a great marriage, that may have “made it look easy” to you, and so when you get to your own marriage you may be shocked by how much it takes to forge a lasting relationship. On the other hand, if you have experienced a bad marriage of a divorce, either as a child or an adult, your view of marriage may be overly wary and pessimistic. You may be too expectant of relationship problems and, when they appear, be too ready to say, “Yup, here it goes,” and to give up. In other words, any kind of background experience of marriage may make you ill equipped for it yourself.

That may seem like a bit of a downer, but really I think it emphasizes that none of us can assume that a good marriage just happens automatically, and neither can any of us assume that a great marriage is out of the realm of possibility. Throughout the book they show how marriage is designed to be, and indeed can be, great. As a marriage newbie, I didn’t read the book to critique it so much as to soak it in and learn from it, so I won’t dissect it point by point here. Instead, I’ll simply recommend it as what seems to me to be an honest, encouraging, well-informed and well-rounded book for all of us, single or married, old or young.

I particularly appreciated Keller’s interview about the book on MSNBC’s Morning Joe in November.

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I love how he re-frames some predictable (and, yes, leading) questions from the panel, refusing to play the culture wars blame game while also challenging the nearly universal assumption that marriage is designed primarily for our own self-fulfillment. As he writes in the book, marriage is “difficult and painful -- yet rewarding and wondrous.”

I'm glad I read the book so early on in marriage, and I plan to return to it again and again.

For more, check out this one-hour conversation with Tim and Kathy, as they discuss the themes of the book and tell stories from their own experience.

[Photo credit: TimothyKeller.com]