Wes Moore and the question of ‘the other’
Another of the books I picked up at bargain prices in the waning hours of Borders’ existence was The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates. I first saw the book last winter on the front display table at the massive Barnes & Noble in Baltimore’s Inner Harbor. It’s a bestseller, so you may already know about it, but in case you’re unacquainted it’s the story of two guys with the same name, both from Baltimore, both raised by single mothers, both African-American. But their lives have turned out drastically differently, and it’s essentially an exploration of the whys behind that. Rather than summarize the story, which really deserves to be read all the way through, I’ll just make a couple of comments about the thoughts that have stuck with me since reading it.
The title intrigues me. The Other Wes Moore is written by Wes Moore, the businessman, Army veteran, TV commentator, White House Fellow, and Rhodes Scholar. So maybe the title refers to the other Wes Moore, who is currently serving a life sentence for murder. But I’m not sure. Could Wes Moore the author be saying that he himself is really the other, the exception to the rule? Perhaps; the ambiguity may be intentional.
The book also brings to mind the tired right-left debates over whether one’s social environment or one's family upbringing is to blame for such ills as poverty and violent crime in America's cities. There are those who’d contend that the environment of the inner city serves to condition (condemn?) children like these Wes Moores to become criminals and unproductive members of society. Meanwhile others argue that it’s the breakdown of the nuclear family that’s to blame; the lack of a father figure in the lives of both Wes Moores and so many others is the defining factor in their lives. I happen to think it’s more of a both/and -- the crushing environment of the inner city and the lack of family cohesiveness mutually enforce each other (for what it’s worth, John Perkins, whose words matter a great deal more than mine, shares this integrated view). More than anything, I think the either/or, right/left approach to these questions may get plenty of people fired up, but in the end it leaves the situation in inner cities mostly unchanged.
So what conclusion does he come to at the end of the book? Why did his story turn out so much differently than that of the other Wes Moore? He knows better than to boil it down to a formula, to a few simple steps. Real life doesn’t work that way. But what he does show is that when given a second chance, and maybe a third and a fourth and a fifth, boys like him might just become men who make their mothers proud. And he shows that for others, sometimes all it takes is a moment to derail things forever.
I think the book is important for his honest, first-person portrayal of the kind of life so many of us haven’t experienced but are quick to diagnose. And more than anything, it’s important for the empathy and compassion with which Wes Moore writes, reminding me and all of us that there, but for the grace of God, go I.
The Other Half
I’ve admired the work of Nicholas Kristof, columnist for the New York Times, for quite a while. I appreciate his tireless work of speaking up like few can about the plight of the poor and oppressed. It was only a matter of time, then, before I got around to reading the recent bestseller he wrote with his wife, Sheryl WuDunn. It’s called Half the Sky: Turning Oppression Into Opportunity for Women Worldwide.
The book is excellently written, as one might expect from a Pulitzer Prize-winning duo, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy to read. The stories of unthinkable hardship endured by women are sobering, if not depressing. The scope of the problem is immense, from sex trafficking to honor killings to rape to an utter lack of opportunity in decision-making at times in even the smallest matters. But fortunately, we’re presented with examples - though often small, isolated, and under-funded - of remarkable women making a real difference within their spheres of influence.
I am grateful for the contribution this book makes and it’s quite encouraging to me that in an era of books like Twilight and I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, a book of substance about difficult but important matters becomes a national bestseller. I hope millions more read it.
But I do have a couple of criticisms. The title comes from the Chinese proverb, “Women hold up half the sky.� And of course it’s an overdue thing to focus a book like this on the half of the world population that is, to a greater or lesser extent, largely oppressed. But while it’s not at all politically correct to do so, I have to wonder, what about those who hold up the other half of the sky? The contributions that women can and do make to society are legion, and it’s undeniable in the field of international development and aid that women have an exponentially better track record in many areas. It’s no accident that the vast majority of microloan recipients in developing nations, for instance, are women.
But borrowing from the pages of groundbreaking Brazilian educator Paulo Freire, the oppressors need liberation just as much as the oppressed. Indeed, history has repeatedly shown that when oppressed peoples “rise up� in a revolution of any sort, it’s not all that surprising when the tables turn, the roles reverse, and we’re left not with peace and justice but with nothing more than a new set of oppressors and oppressed. We need to do better than that. So, as a matter of principle, I wish Kristof and WuDunn would have focused a bit more on what it might look like for men and women to begin holding up the sky together, cooperatively, with mutual respect. As it is, very little is said about the role men should play in the world they envision. (Interestingly, I should add, the tagline on the book website reads, "Women aren't the problem, they're the solution along with men." Perhaps since publication they have given mutuality some additional thought.)
There's another sense in which the book fails - or paradoxically illustrates - its moniker. As one who grew up in Latin America and whose work involves a daily analysis of media coverage of world events, it is clear to me that Latin America doesn’t get a sliver of the attention it deserves. Apart from beheadings in Mexico and the latest inflammatory sound bites from Chavez, one is consistently hard-pressed to find out through traditional media what’s taking place south of the United States on the American continent. Kristof and WuDunn, unfortunately, don’t help matters. The stories of oppression and opportunity they tell are largely from Africa and Asia, with a few examples from the Middle East and the very occasional reference to Latin America. So if you’re interested in those who hold up the sky in the western half of the world, you’ll have to look elsewhere, and I'm warning you now: it might take some work.
All things considered, however, Half the Sky is excellent, challenging, at times sickening, eventually inspiring, and all around quite important.
For more: http://www.halftheskymovement.org/
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