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It occurred to me, after writing all those posts about La Limonada and the important, inspiring stuff going on there, that some of you may have found yourself harboring suspicions. You may have wondered, for instance: were we being paid to say nice things about Lemonade International in order to trick you into sponsoring a child?

These are reasonable things to wonder, so I thought I’d take a moment to dispel your fears. We bloggers paid for our own airfare, and took time off from work (some of us without paid leave), just because we truly wanted to meet the people of La Limonada and do what we could to tell their stories. In exchange, we were given bunk beds to sleep in, meals to eat, WiFi to use, and transportation to and from La Limonada each day. And, most important of all, the staff gave us their time and, as familiar faces in La Limonada, they vouched for us as we walked the streets – something we’d have been foolish to attempt on our own.

So yes, we do really want you to sponsor a child in La Limonada – or sponsor a teacher, or start a lemonade stand, etc. – but not because we get something tangible out of it. We just have reason to believe these things make a real difference in kids’ lives, and that Lemonade International’s programs represent holistic community development at its best.

I was reminded of this when I saw the Principles of Excellence in Integral Mission, recently published by the Accord Network. As the statement puts it, holistic mission “will be characterized as excellent” when these eight components are in place:

  1. Our Christian faith is at the center of our identity, motive, and manner of being
  2. We acknowledge the reality and significance of the spiritual realm
  3. The Church is central
  4. Transformational practices start with us
  5. We recognize the whole system of poverty
  6. In our relationship journey with the church, our local partners, and the community, we enter as guests, co-labor as partners, and continue as friends
  7. We support local communities and churches in measuring all that matters
  8. We tell the story with integrity

storytelling1There’s a lot I could say about how the staff of Lemonade International, both those in the community of La Limonada and those supporting the work from elsewhere, put these principles into practice every day.

Notably, there’s no denying the fact that the Christian faith is what drives these folks, as well as what sustains them, and they don’t need to be convinced that there’s a spiritual dynamic at play in the community. Their lives are also marked by the shared desire to be co-laborers and friends, not saviors or twenty-first-century colonialists. Those are a few that are clear.

But it’s that last principle that especially jumped out, because Lemonade International has truly impressed me with its commitment to telling the story with integrity. Here’s how the Accord statement emphasizes that important point:

How we tell the story of the work, and what we choose to say, is a sacred trust between our organizations and the churches, communities, peers, donors, and the poor who work together with us. What we say about the work, to all parties, will be true and transparent, demonstrating the complexity of poverty alleviation, and giving credit everywhere credit is due. What we communicate will honor the view and the voice of those we serve, and reflect our humility and teachable heart by sharing even those hard lessons learned.

The Lemonade International blog is an obvious and consistent example of this commitment to excellence and integrity in storytelling. And through our recent bloggers trip, we were able to join them, doing some storytelling of our own. We were all certainly cognizant of the possibility of exploiting people one way or another through photography and the written word, and none of us wanted to do that, so we talked quite a bit about best practices and we did our best to avoid misrepresenting or dishonoring anyone through our blogs.

But the real test of integrity and excellence in storytelling isn’t whether the storytellers themselves feel they did a good job. The best judges are rather the people whose stories are told.

After most of the bloggers team had left for the airport, Katie and I were waiting for a ride at the Lemonade House with Sam, who leads Lemonade’s micro-enterprise program, when in walked Salma and Alma. We had met Salma and Alma the day before, hearing their gripping, painful stories, and learning about the vocational training they had received to make and sell jewelry.

storytelling3Now, Salma and Alma said they were interested in seeing the blogs for themselves. We showed them a photo of them with Katie, and then we showed them Paul’s post, in which he recounted their story in full detail.

It was the moment of truth. They had entrusted their stories to us; had we handled them with care?

As Sam translated the post into Spanish, Salma and Alma marveled that Paul had remembered the conversation, seemingly word for word, and had told the story so faithfully. Tears came to their eyes, and they thanked us.

Paul’s post had passed the test. But it served as a good reminder: storytelling with integrity and excellence really matters. The stakes are high because building and keeping trust is essential when it comes to holistic community development. When deciding whether to support a nonprofit focused on community development and poverty alleviation, don’t underestimate the importance of its storytelling.

If an organization doesn’t do this well, it hasn’t earned the right to be trusted – not by you, and certainly not by the people it purports to serve.

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If you’ve been impressed with Lemonade International, a great way to begin supporting their work is by participating in their fifth anniversary gala, whether in person in Raleigh or Cincinnati (if you happen to live in the vicinity), or online.

[Photos by Scott Bennett]

24 photos from Guatemala

April 30, 2013 — 3 Comments

Though our recent trip to Guatemala was primarily focused on meeting the people of La Limonada and doing our best to tell their stories, it was also Katie’s first time in my home country, so I was grateful we could stay in the country a few extra days.

As you know, we had a remarkably talented photographer among our ranks during the bloggers trip. But I did take my iPhone along with me, and managed to get some Instagram photos in La Limonada and later in the week in Panajachel and Antigua, during some sightseeing with Katie.

Since not all of you are on Instagram, I thought I’d share 24 of my favorites from our trip to the beautiful country.

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View out the front door, Lemonade House

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Tita Evertsz during orientation, Lemonade House

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View from window of Limon Academy, La Limonada

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A colorful sink, Limon Academy

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T-shirt commemorating the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women

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Stairway in Mandarina Academy, La Limonada

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Colorful wall, Mandarina Academy

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View of La Limonada from above

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Otto, a shoemaker who trains and employs young men getting out of gangs

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Some Guatemalans get mausoleums, others get these

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Katie with our sponsored child, Cristian, working on a puzzle

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Good things happen in a house on this street in Guatemala City

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Iglesia de San Francisco, Panajachel

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Reading in a hammock, Panajachel

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Contemplating the menu, Sunset Cafe, Panajachel

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Lake Atitlan was mostly cloudy, but the volcano finally showed itself

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Our hotel in Antigua gave us this very impressive and archaic key

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Cross and candles, Antigua

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Mary and Jesus in a convent courtyard, Antigua

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Brunch at Doña Luisa’s, an old family favorite, Antigua

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Fountain in a courtyard, Antigua

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Iglesia de San Francisco, Antigua

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Morning coffee at Cafe Condesa on Plaza Mayor, Antigua

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The famous Santa Catalina Arch, Antigua

For more where these came from, feel free to follow me on Instagram.

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Last you heard from me here on the blog we had just witnessed an unprecedented meeting of the leaders of several of La Limonada’s colonias, who despite (or because of) decades of compounded enmity decided it was at last time to talk. This came the day after we’d met our sponsored child, Cristian, and I considered aloud what it would take to keep this five year old boy, who delights in blowing bubbles, from becoming a gang member. All the while I continued to marvel at the lives of people like Tita, who remind us that true religion is simple.

The bloggers team disbanded a week ago today, but new friendships have formed, old friendships have deepened, and we carry with us the stories we were invited into, the stories we were invited to share.

You’ll be hearing more from me on the things we experienced during those three days in La Limonada, but in the meantime, I want to be sure you get a chance to read what the others on the team had to say and to see the wonderful images our photographer was able to capture. The Lemonade International blog has a compilation of our posts, as well as a sampling of photos for each of the three days.

Day 1: Posts and Photos

Day 2: Posts and Photos

Day 3: Posts and Photos

You may also be interested in reading some great post-trip reflections from Paul, on the “subdued, sturdy encouragement, rest, and confidence” in God he brings back from his time in Guatemala, and from Katie, on the difference child sponsorship with Lemonade International makes in the lives of people like Cristian.

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For many years, La Limonada has been divided into eleven distinct colonias, or neighborhoods. Lemonade International’s two academies are in Lourdes I and Lourdes II, respectively. Other colonias have names like Lomas del Edén (Hills of Eden), El Esfuerzo (The Effort), Buena Vista (Good View), 15 de Agosto (August 15), and 5 de Octubre (October 5).

There are decades-old stories behind these names, and the lines of demarcation between colonias, while not visible on any map or to any outsider’s eye, are for that reason no less real.

In fact, unlike the porous boundaries between neighborhoods in cities in the United States – even between so-called “good” and “bad” areas – the lines between the neighborhoods of La Limonada are simply not to be crossed under any circumstances. Each colonia is controlled by a pandilla, a youth street gang, and they aren’t in the habit of forgiving trespassers.

On Sunday night, just before we arrived in La Limonada for the first time on Monday morning, there was a shooting in front of one of Lemonade International’s academies. It was part of a skirmish between pandillas representing neighboring colonias. This kind of thing happens somewhat regularly, invariably putting everyone on edge and leading many parents to keep their kids home from school. This shooting, as it happened, was a case of mistaken identity; gang members in pursuit of a particular enemy mistakenly shot at an innocent passerby in the leg.

Considering all of this, today was an historic day. The designated presidents of five of La Limonada’s colonias – including two who have a reputation for downright hating each other – came together for an unprecedented meeting in hopes of collaborating on ways to better serve their communities and to seek the common good of La Limonada as a whole. The meeting was convened by a small group of university students of industrial design who were given the assignment by a professor acquainted with a Lemonade International staff member.

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As the meeting got underway, the 26 of us broke the ice by going around the room, each sharing our name and one positive attribute about ourselves, as well as the names and attributes of each previous person. There was a bit of awkward forgetfulness and a lot of laughter, but we were all surprised at how many names and positive attributes we could remember about others – most of whom we’d just met. And this set the stage for what came next.

We were divided into a handful of groups, and each group was assigned a concept to draw on a sheet of butcher paper. My group, which included one of the colonia presidents (pictured with me below), was asked to depict in pictures what comes to mind when we think of “agents of change.” We drew stick figures of a leader in conversation with the people of the community. We drew a person looking forward, not stuck in the past. We drew hands coming together, forging bonds of friendship and trust. And we drew a picture of a man washing someone else’s feet. That last one, the president explained to everyone, represented what we can learn from the example of Jesus, who humbled himself and became a servant.

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The university students who convened the gathering plan to put together a book that details the history of La Limonada based on the combined and synthesized accounts of these colonia presidents. This is particularly exciting to the staff of Lemonade International, since nothing of its kind exists, and because those who can remember La Limonada’s early days are getting up in years.

The lines of demarcation between the colonias still exist, but today steps were taken to unite these communities that have so much in common, in hopes that together they can accomplish more to change La Limonada than they ever could apart.

What I didn’t mention until now is that this meeting took place at one of Lemonade International’s academies, and that Tita has been the key link making this kind of gathering possible. Through child sponsorship, scholarships, micro-finance, vocational training, and more, Lemonade International is directly impacting the lives of hundreds of individual people for the better.

But as a group of faithful, courageous Christians, the organization is doing something more – making a way for sworn enemies with decades of enmity behind them and between them to come together, to look each other in the eye, to say each other’s names, to praise each other’s attributes, to laugh, to fidget, and certainly not least, to dream of a common future in which, God only knows, colonia presidents may even stoop to wash each other’s feet.

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[Photos by Scott Bennett]

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The streets of La Limonada are narrow, with endless twists and turns, and sensory overload is the norm.

Coming around any given corner – few of which come close to resembling ninety-degree angles – you never know what you’ll find or whom you’ll meet.

Occasionally, walking as a group with Tita at the lead these past couple of days, we’ve come across a group of young guys, one perhaps sitting on a doorstep and a few others leaning on the opposite wall a few feet away. They’re members of a neighborhood gang, and this is where they spend their days. After dark, I suspect, is when they earn their keep.

Walking past them we offer the typical friendly greetings, while being especially careful not to stare, and perhaps picking up our pace just a bit.

We pretend to be comfortable in their presence. We’re not.

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This morning we sat in the home of a former gang member who asked us not to take photos or use his real name in telling his story. We didn’t ask what would happen if we did.

Like his peers, by the time he turned ten he started noticing the fashion-forward teenagers in the neighborhood whose way of life, with few good alternatives to consider, struck him as alluring. Before long he had joined their ranks, robbing others in order to eat, and doing what it took to get a fix.

Eventually, his life of violence, drug abuse, and fear caught up with him and he made the difficult and courageous decision to quit the gang. But there was no hiding the skin on his arms and his face, which bore the abiding marks of his recent past. And in Guatemala City, men with tattoos aren’t given honest jobs.

Desperate to turn his life around and to provide for his wife and young children, he took matters into his own hands. Using a razor blade, and later with fire, he started trying to remove the tattoos himself.

At 25, his face now bears the scars and his left arm is bandaged, but he has an honest job, working as a traffic attendant at a ritzy shopping center across town. His life is far from wonderful, but his life is a living testimony to other young men that there is a way out of gangs. None of it will be easy, but then again, neither is the alternative.

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For the past year or so we’ve been supporting Lemonade International’s work through TEN2END, making a small monthly donation of $10. Before this trip we decided to go ahead and sponsor a child. We chose a cute five-year-old boy whose favorite color is yellow, who loves playing cards, and who is described by those who know him as calm, intelligent, and trustworthy.

Today we met Cristian in his classroom at Mandarina Academy, surrounded by clamoring classmates eager for him to meet his sponsors. Cristian himself was rather shy. We gave him a few small gifts, including three bottles of bubbles with Spiderman on them. He said he likes Spiderman, but he might have just being nice, for all we know; he had good manners one way or another.

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Later we crammed into his home with his stepsisters and his elderly blind grandmother. His father hasn’t been in the picture for quite some time, and his mother was at work. I introduced us to the family, saying I’d grown up in Guatemala and that it was a real pleasure to be with them. Then we read him a translated letter Katie had written him on our behalf, telling him a bit more about us and saying we’d be praying for him. As we prepared to leave the home, we discovered much to our delight that Cristian happens to be a really good hugger.

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If he’s like his peers, within five years (and maybe less) Cristian will start feeling the pull toward gang life.

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We don’t know what his future holds. And we certainly don’t know the first thing about what it feels like to be a boy growing up in La Limonada, where the odds are stacked so incredibly high against him.

There’s no silver bullet that will break the cycle of gang violence in La Limonada. There’s no silver bullet that will ensure a happy, healthy, and long life for Cristian. There’s no silver bullet for much of anything in life, here or anywhere.

But a quality primary education will go a long way, and scholarships to continue with junior high and high school will go even further. Micro-finance and vocational training programs also provide much-needed opportunities for adults intent on doing honest work.

I want to ask you to sponsor a child like Cristian through Lemonade International. Not because you’re anyone’s savior. Not because sponsorship is a silver bullet. Not because it guarantees anything. But because the children in those academies represent the future of La Limonada, and that future is up for grabs.

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[Photos by Scott Bennett]